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If you read that and imagine that I spend my days naked and on my knees waiting for my Dominant to throw out commands, think again. Note: I am a female submissive with a male Dominant I call " Daddy. My day really begins the night before when I set up the coffee pot for the next morning's cup of coffee.

First task of the day - make sure my Dominant's coffee is ready to go at the push of a button when he wakes up. Wake up and do my own thing. I'm the type of person who checks her and Twitter on her iPhone while still in bed. He's often up before I am which is why I get his coffee ready the night before. Make his breakfast smoothie and the cup of coffee he'll take to work. His smoothie has to have his protein powder but I choose the fruit based on what we have available.

Before he met me, it was just milk, ice, and the powder yuck! Goodbye kiss. And wowza! He might edge me. He might bite my neck. He might just kiss me until I forget to breathe. Either way, it's delicious and achieves his goal - making sure he's all I'm thinking about for at least a few minutes. When I get dressed in the morning, I only wear panties if he's picked them out for me.

If I know my chosen outfit for the day needs a pair, I request them before he leaves or send him a quick text asking if I can choose a pair. If I pick them out, I have to send him a picture of me wearing them. After this point, the day is mine. I choose the career path I'm on and how to accomplish my goals. I decide what needs to be cleaned when, what needs to cooked, and what I need to buy. I confer with him often to get his opinion or find out if there's anything specific he wants or needs done but I make decisions without him throughout the day.

thousands receiving hot new sex related articles, goodies, and great deals. Everything stops or nearly everything if I'm not under a deadline , and we talk during his lunch hour. It's a way to reconnect and check in with each other. It's sometimes the only way I'll take some time to focus on something outside of work or whatever my errands are for the day. The very few times I've asked that we skip the call damn deadlines! When I say we talk about everything, I mean everything. We've talked about grocery shopping and clothes shopping for the kids, and we've discussed politics and social issues in the news.

He's usually home by now, and unless I'm under a deadline, my work stops for the day. I turn my focus to him and the kids. Dinner is cooked and served. The kitchen is cleaned. His lunch is packed for the next day - another of my tasks. If I don't pack his lunch at night, I'm running around the next morning getting it done not fun. We take a walk. Sometimes it's just to the mailbox, sometimes it's around our condo complex. The walk serves multiple purposes - a little bit of exercise, fresh air for me as I spend most of my time staring at a computer screen while sitting at the kitchen table, and time to talk without little ears listening.

The walk is canceled only for illness or bad weather. Shower time, and we usually take it together. They don't question the fact that we're in the bathroom together, and we leave it alone. After the kids are tucked in bed, lights out, and door shut, it's time to make his evening coffee and dessert. Once it's ready, I kneel in front of him before I hand it to him.

It's a small gesture, but if the day was hectic - and it usually is - this act of submission can center me as little else does. He often kisses me gently, tells me he loves me, and stares into my eyes until I blush and look away. I think he enjoys that last part. It's another required task of mine. Before climbing into bed, I kneel again and either wait for him to grant permission, or I ask permission to come to bed.

This ritual is less tender and much kinkier. I might wiggle my ass in hopes of a few swats. If there's time and energy , I might find myself the recipient of a deliciously painful spanking with his hand or a quick session with the flogger, paddle, or crop. By the time I climb into bed, I'm often relaxed - or pouting a little if he didn't have the energy for anything more than a quick pat. But it's a al to my mind and body that it's time to rest and relax for the evening.

We do not have sex every night. The only time I'm naked is a shower or after we go to bed unless we're able to schedule some kinky fun during the day a rare thing indeed. The kids don't hear me call him "Daddy. I have very specific tasks to complete, and I defer to him in all things if I'm unsure of what to do. On the rare occasions we've disagreed, I speak to him once the kids are out of earshot, and we discuss the issue respectfully. I show him respect in all things, and he reciprocates. He supports my career goals and my dreams, even when they interfere with a task I have.

He is capable of making his own coffee or getting his own breakfast if something with work comes up. Better yet, he's willing to do those things. When I'm in pain or sick, I'm not allowed to kneel which I really don't like.

I'll often make the attempt anyway until he gives me The Look and uses his "Dom voice" - the voice that says he means business. It's that he's always Daddy, and I'm always babygirl, regardless of where we are and what we're doing. Let me make something clear. Look at and see different ways. At the end of the day, all you really need is trust, communication, and consent - and a willingness to try. Professional writer, sex blogger, erotic author, sexual submissive, and kinkster, Kayla writes more than is probably healthy over at A Sexual Being and overshares about the kinky and mundane side of her BDSM relationship.

Her mission: to make BDSM, specifically Dominance and submission, less scary, less weird, and much more real and attainable for anyone willing to learn more. Living life as a submissive isn't what most people expect - and it isn't all about sex. Learn more here. The Day Begins My day really begins the night before when I set up the coffee pot for the next morning's cup of coffee. Article Continued Below.

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